I’m Challenged, Not Dead

The level of abusiveness out there has really reached critical mass. I’ve mentioned before that I was part of the early BBS crowd, before the Internet, so I’ve been communicating by modem/online since 1988. Back then we saw an influx of bravado that was really misplaced, stalking, people who felt they could say anything they…

The Value of Choices

We all make choices according to the goals we have in mind.  Whether it’s formally set or something you never share with others, the paths you choose are always influenced by where you want to end up… assuming it’s a genuine heart’s desire.  You can fool yourself in the forefront of your mind, but you…

Whenever You Get There

We all go through stages where we hit walls and recognized the poor choices of the past.     When it  comes to things that affect our health, it’s more common than not to feel that if everything seems tolerably managed for now, why worry?  It is actually a very small percentage of people that get away with…

Focus on Passion, Not Poison

The year started rough for a lot of people.  Many of us have been ill – colds, flu, secondary infections like pneumonia, bronchitis, strep – and the fatigue and pain that comes with Winter weather changes for those of us that have rheumatic autoimmune, and neurological diseases.  Anyone with injuries like I have on top…

Why Not You?

I believe in balance. Most of the time I’m pretty nice in the way that I talk to people – and if you don’t think I am,  then you haven’t known me long enough.  With that in mind, I’m about to get really blunt. Not mean, not rude, just extremely honest.  Sometimes it’s necessary.  Consider this the…

Veteran’s Day 2015 – True Scars & Badges of Honor

I spent three days mulling this over before writing about it.  Sometimes it’s better to take some time to think it through and consider wording, and even whether you want to address a thing… and my conclusion now is, I DO.  I am also sure I won’t get through writing it without shedding tears. I’m…

No Better Than Anyone

With so much in the country today that is so incredibly polarizing, nobody needs to go looking for new ways to be rude.  If you represent some particular belief system – whether it’s religion, food choices, fitness, philosophy, or ANYTHING – be a GOOD representative.  Don’t be a jerk.  People are watching you when you…